How to put her in the mood for sex

[buff69]

Originally Posted by phinafan

the best way to get a girl in the mood for sex is buying them a handbag

The best way to get a guy in the mood is put your hand on his bag

[vindiesel]

Originally Posted by buff69

The best way to get a guy in the mood is put your hand on his bag

I won't tell you what I used to do to my X to get him in the mood

[brinkman]

Originally Posted by phinafan

the best way to get a girl in the mood for sex is buying them a handbag

hahah i can't drop 800 bucks on some gay coach purse... i did however drop 3 hundred on my pit bulls louis vuitton collar and leash... chicks ain't worth that kind of money!

[buff69]

Originally Posted by vindiesel

I won't tell you what I used to do to my X to get him in the mood

So many things just went through my mind ...........and now I'm in the mood, but as always no ones around

[gtrcivic]

put on some porn, she sees you getturned on then she will get turned on watching it with you. bada bam bada bing

[vindiesel]

Originally Posted by buff69

So many things just went through my mind ...........and now I'm in the mood, but as always no ones around

Where is your girl?

[956Vette]

Originally Posted by vindiesel

· Show your commitment to the relationship.

lol, i just found this to be funny

[Teamorbit]

Thanks Vindiesel. Its always good to get some advice from the another perspective.

[buff69]

Originally Posted by vindiesel

Where is your girl?

Even when she is here she acts as if I'm not I just do not see myself being married much longer...........

[friggemall]

Originally Posted by vindiesel

I won't tell you what I used to do to my X to get him in the mood

all you have to do is say "honey I'm home" and that's mood enough

[vindiesel]

Originally Posted by buff69

Even when she is here she acts as if I'm not I just do not see myself being married much longer...........

Sex isn't everything in a marriage, love is

[friggemall]

Originally Posted by vindiesel

Sex isn't everything in a marriage, love is

as in "love to have sex"? j/k mg. Theres many things that make a marriage. Unfortunately sex is generally used as a tool to get what she wants or a weapon if one doesn't obey her here in the US.

If you buy me this I'll let you have a little sex this month, then...Oh I'm tired, or I don't feel good, I think I started.

Makes a guy just feel like, look you wanna f*ck or what, I don't have time for your games. Then Making love turns into just sex and the downfall begins.

[jtriron]

Originally Posted by phinafan

the best way to get a girl in the mood for sex is buying them a handbag

True That

[ILBW]

Originally Posted by Alpineslide

I always ask my fiance what she likes or what turns her on. Her standard answer is, " I don't know....just go with it".

I wish she'd give me a little input into what she likes. She certainly tells me things she doesn't like.

That's funny...my BF and I were just discussing this today. I think that is the biggest mistake a girl (or guy for that matter) can make...to just "assume" their partner knows what they like and/or want. I was always so shy (sexually) in my previous relationships that I would've never considered actually telling my partner what I liked him to do for me. Now, we are actually at a point where we are close enough and comfortable enough to be able to tell each other what we like and how we like it.

My point is...that it is worth trying to discuss at a level at which you are both comfortable. It won't do you any good if she's squirming through the whole conversation. As juvenile as it sounds...sometimes these things are easier said/talked about non-verbally. Email, love notes, text messages, etc. can work wonders to break the ice! :O

Good luck!

[ncard]

Originally Posted by buff69

Even when she is here she acts as if I'm not I just do not see myself being married much longer...........

You sound like you are suffering from some depression and lack of confidence. Are there any activities that you could do to improve these symptoms? Are you feeling physically well? Often depression, lack of confidence and poor physical well being feed each other. Her lack of interest is her issue not yours.